Word: misses
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Dates: during 1970-1979
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What about men?-enmity for whom, Miss Decter asserts, is the "basic, one might say founding passion" of Women's Liberation. Beleaguered male chauvinists could hardly find a better champion. "A husband's kindnesses and attentions to his wife, along with his concern that she be well housed and well fed and sexually gratified, are," Miss Decter protests, hysterically misinterpreted, as if they were sinister "plans from which he means to construct a towering edifice to his own vanity...
Foreclosure. Miss Decter is even willing to relieve man of part of those sexual responsibilities. "The pursuit of orgasm for a woman," she argues, "is an entirely irrelevant undertaking." Nothing has agitated Miss Decter's early women readers more than this extraordinary pronouncement. One of the printable responses: "Few feminists are opting for chastity or lesbianism or the foreclosure of the vagina." Miss Decter's counterrebuttal: the sexual revolution has assigned to women "the obligations of an impersonal lust they did not feel but only believed in"-constituting, in other words, just one more unwanted freedom...
Women's Liberation, Miss Decter concludes, is a rather messy living testimony to "the difficulties women are experiencing with the rights and freedoms they already enjoy." Though she may speak in "the language of social justice," the Women's Liberationist is really afraid of the risks of being human: "the rhythms of time and mortality." She lacks "the courage to rec ognize the extent of one's frailty and dependence on others." What she re fuses to come to terms with is not a man's world but life itself...
...Miss Decter has drawn up a severe indictment. It generalizes too wildly about Women's Liberation and is too personal to be documented. It is also clumsily written. Still The New Chas tity serves as a provocative act of overcompensation on a topic that, for the moment, lacks spokeswomen (to say nothing of spokesmen) in the center...
...risk? Will day centers save the sanity, if not the very life, of the mad house wife? Not even Ann Landers knows, certainly not Midge Decter, who is at her weakest when - especially on sex - she seems to be passing off private views as nature's laws. What Miss Decter does know is that these issues are not the issue, that the real question is whether or not ideology can or should define life so that all human griefs, all failures in fulfillment, tend to get blamed on a single cause...