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...encouraged" to join the march, although they can "stand on the sidelines," Stoller said. "This is a women's march," she said...
Boston officials, fearing racial violence in the wake of several killings in the last few weeks, almost refused to grant permits to the women, Stoller said...
...Cambridge marchers will gather Mass Ave at 7 p.m., and march across the B.U. Bridge into Boston. A "collective of women will each deliver parts of a collectively written speech" at the rally, Stoller said...
...role, says Stoller, requires a victim. In real life the partner is supposed to play the part so that the hurt child can become a victorious adult in his sexual fantasies. It is a kind of theater in which the adult again and again conquers childhood fears. Says Stoller: "Triumph, rage, revenge, fear, anxiety, risk are all condensed into one complex buzz called 'sexual excitement.' " In Stoller's view, that buzz has an even harsher component: sadomasochism, the deriving of pleasure from inflicting or experiencing pain. As he puts it, "My hunch is that the desire...
...Though Stoller insists that only a few rare individuals may achieve excitement without any traces of hostility, he is not entirely pessimistic: many contented people, he allows, have clearly been able to outweigh hostility with affection and a capacity for closeness...